Welcome, I’m Coach Alex Ray

Certified relationship coach. Confidence builder. Authentic-connection enthusiast.

I help individuals and couples break through old patterns and step into relationships that feel honest, empowered, and deeply fulfilling. Whether you’re navigating dating, rebuilding trust, or simply learning to speak up for what you need, when we work together we’ll turn fear into freedom. My clients consistently finish our work together with the confidence to show up as their full, authentic self.

From workshops to private coaching, everything I offer is grounded in real talk, practical tools, and a belief that meaningful change starts with radical self-honesty.

build confidence for better dating, deeper connection, and a life that feels fulfilling

most people struggle with relationships because they don’t know how to ask for what they want. I’ll help you unlock confidence, communicate your desires, and create a truly fulfilling relationship—inside and outside the bedroom.

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real clients, real results

Working with Alex resolved recurring issues in my intimate life and gave me confidence in my personal life too. The tools he provided were invaluable.
Davis – Ended a dead-end relationship & found a true partner
Alex makes the hard work fun—and serves it up with sass! Dive in and enjoy!
Diane – Found the fun and ease in dating
In just three months, I’ve learned to confidently voice my needs, explore my kinks, and open my heart in ways that feel safe. Alex is kind, playful, and full of deep wisdom—don’t wait to work with him!
Josh – More bold in his: relationship, kinks, & emotions
Alex will support and challenge you to become more you—while making you laugh and holding space when you need it. One of the best decisions of my life.
Victoria – Redefined polyamory for herself
Navigating a throuple was tricky, but Alex helped us uncover the roots of our challenges and move forward with deeper love and connection.
Ross – From couple to loving throuple
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